“Nothing is so beautiful as spring.” — Gerard Manley Hopkins
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I slept through the northern lights this week. Drat! But despite my disappointment over missing the show, I’ve found that the daytime spring skies are a solace.
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It’s not just the skies that are . My little suburban yard is green and vibrant, and an ever-source of discovery. New surprises daily. One of the best ones this week: my native pawpaw tree is in bloom!
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Look at those blooms! Each flower has a faint whiff of carrion, which supposedly attracts its fly and beetle pollinators. My mom used to sing me to sleep with the “pawpaw” folk song; she’d personalize it with my name.
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Such a strange little tree! Its green-black fruit is said to be the largest edible fruit of any North American tree. Last year, we had our first fruit set—just a few—but such a triumph after years of waiting. The pawpaw is a nostalgic tree for me, as well as an important understory tree in our woodlands. The only memory I have of my maternal great-grandfather is of me in his southern Illinois yard, under a pawpaw tree. He picked a pawpaw fruit, cut it open, then handed me little pulp to sample. I said, “It tastes sort of like a banana!” He told me, “Pawpaws just taste like pawpaws.”
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Maybe this fall, we’ll have our second year of pawpaw fruit.
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If you want to know more about this interesting tree, I like this essay, “The Curious Pawpaw,” from the Virginia Native Plant Society found here. Check it out. For a deep dive into pawpaws, Pawpaw: America’s Forgotten Fruit is a fun read by Andrew Moore. There are even pawpaw festivals held around the country where you can buy the fruit and celebrate this exotic native tree. Or plant one—you’ll be glad you did.
I continue walking around the yard. I like to mix a few spring bulbs in with my native plantings, and this year, the giant alliums did not disappoint.
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I love the architecture of the blooms.
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I’m glad to see my native honeysuckle bushes are thriving. We planted them on the particularly ugly west side of the house, where the soil is poor and they don’t get as much sunlight as I’d prefer. We also have a slow-growing witch hazel and American hazelnut there, that were put in at the same time (all from the always-amazing Possibility Place Nursery).
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The northern bush honeysuckle is a tough shrub that requires very little maintenance. Because it suckers, it will hopefully form a thick hedge in a few more years. Its tiny yellow flowers, beloved by bees, will bloom any day now.
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After checking in on the shrubs, I stop to admire the front yard prairie garden now in its third year now. Look at that prairie smoke!
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When massed together, the pink is eye-popping.
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I’ve never gotten it to grow anywhere else in my mostly-wet yard. This is one of the few dry spots it prefers. But—uh, oh! What’s this? Next to the prairie smoke, the native foxglove beardtongue has broken out in spots!
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Drat! After some online detective work, I discover it has “rust,” a fungal disease. This is the first time I’ve encountered it in my garden.
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Supposedly, windblown spores from other plants in the neighborhood can infect my plants, or overhead watering (including some hard rains) can cause the spots. To stop the spread, I’ll need to remove the leaves that have the fungus. Ah, well. Always something new to learn.
I check the rest of the planting bed. My golden Alexanders are enthusiastically taking over the front portion—a little too enthusiastic for my preference. If I would have know they’d be so rambunctious, I would have only planted one plant, instead of three!
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In hindsight, I wish I had placed them near the back of the bed, and the prairie smoke in the front. Too late now!
Next to it, the common mountain mint—a favorite of pollinators—seems to have multiplied to occupy three times its original space. It spreads by rhizomes, and is usually thought of as only having medium aggressiveness. The weather and soil conditions must favor it here. It’s smothering the butterfly milkweed! I look at all the new mint shoots, and I can imagine the flowers that will follow this summer.
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My hashtag should probably be #alwayslearning. Looks like I might have to dig and move a few plants so they don’t completely out-compete some of the less “enthusiastic” plants in this bed. The mountain mint and golden Alexanders are not the only prairie plants off to a great start this spring. Queen of the prairie, a gorgeous tall native with cotton candy pink blooms in the summer, seems to be planning a coup in the backyard.
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I love this plant, but I also enjoy the compass plant, prairie dock, Culver’s root, obedient plant, cardinal flower, sneezeweed, prairie dropseed, and other prairie members of my backyard community. I hope they are still under all that Filipendula, somewhere. I can’t wait for the pink performance this summer, though!
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It’s a surfeit of riches for sure, all these multiplying plants, and yet…there are other plants that are getting crowded out. Call it the gardener’s dilemma.
I notice the raised bed vegetable gardens are full of weeds, and it’s really past time to plant. I usually put in some March spring vegetables, but this year I put it off until it was too late. Now, it’s time to plant the tomatoes and peppers. Feeling a pang of guilt, I pull a few of the massive chickweed and field penny-cress plants in a desultory way, making a half-hearted start on cleaning up the bed. Then I glimpse a purple-red globe half-buried in the earth.
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Oh my! I remember how I let some of my radishes go to seed for the edible and tasty seedpods last summer. I must have missed a few of those seedpods—and the result is the easiest harvest I’ll probably ever have.
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No matter how well I plan, the prairie garden, vegetable garden, and yard always have innumerable surprises each year. I imagine I’ll see different species ebb and flow through the seasons, as rain, drought, time, frost, rabbits, poor planning, and general gardening laziness all have their effect. Wherever you call home, it’s all part of the joy of gardening. What surprises are you seeing in your part of the gardening world? Drop me a note and let me know. Meanwhile, I’m cruising the garden centers and native plant sales, adding more participants to the general chaos.
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It’s still only the middle of May. There are so many delights yet to unfold! I can’t wait to see what happens next.
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The opening quote is from Gerard Manley Hopkins’ poem “Spring.” The Poetry Foundation tells us that Hopkins (1844-1899) is considered one of the greatest poets of the Victorian era, and yet his work was not published until 30 years after his death—and readers weren’t impressed at the time. Read more about his life and writing at The Poetry Foundation here.
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Join Cindy for a class or program this spring!
TONIGHT! Tuesday, May 14, 6:30-8:30 p.m.-“Dragonflies and Damselflies: The Garden’s Frequent Fliers,” presented by the Joliet Garden Club, Barber and Oberwortmann Horticulture Center, 227 North Gougar Rd., Joliet, inside the main greenhouse. Open to the public. For more information, visit their Facebook page.
Wednesday, June 5, 7-8:30 p.m. — “Bison Tails and Tallgrass Trails.” ONLINE only! Bensenville Public library. Free and open to the public. For registration details, call the library here.
Wednesday, June 12, 7-8 p.m. —“Dragonflies and Damselflies: The Garden’s Frequent Fliers” at Des Plaines Public Library, Des Plaines, IL. (In person) Free and open to the public. For registration details, see here.
Thursday, June 13, 10-11:30 a.m. —“A Tallgrass Prairie Hike,” Hilltop Gardeners Garden Club, Oswego, IL (offsite, private event).
Thursday, June 13, 6:30-8 p.m.— “Potawatomi Prairie Perspectives” with Gina Roxas, Executive Director of the Trickster Center, and Cindy in conversation. (The Morton Arboretum, Lisle, IL, Prairie Visitor Station– held outdoors, weather permitting). Registration and ticket costs here.
More programs and classes at http://www.cindycrosby.com.
Cindy,
I always love your posts, but especially liked today’s because it featured so much of your yard. I keep wishing my Queen of the Prairie would grow, but so far no luck.
The other day, I read the article below and thought you might find it interesting. I know the fellow would appreciate the dead spruce “Woodpecker Tree” I keep up just for the Redbellies and Downies – although neighbors have complained.
Ron
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I’ve left up two snags of old silver maples. One has a chickadee pair nesting in a hole, the other is a food source for woodpeckers. 🙂
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Yay!!!!! Nice work. Cindy 🙂
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Thank you, Ron! How thoughtful of you to share this article. I love it that there is broader awareness to the value of old snags. And thank you for all the inspiring work you do in your yard! Keep in touch. Cindy 🙂
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Sure wish I knew (what I know now) about landscape planning 30 years ago. So many mistakes I’ve made, and it is now too late to redesign it all. BTW, bedding and veggie plant prices $$$!!!!!!! Yikes!!! I’m committing to growing my own from seed from here on.
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I’m impressed you are growing your plants from seed, Mike! I go back and forth — some years I get it done, other years I go to Hackers (a family run greenhouse up the road from my house) and buy whatever they have (a nice selection, with many heirlooms and a few natives). Every year I make a new mistake in the garden, and hopefully get a little bit wiser. 🙂 Thank you for reading, and for your thoughts! Cindy 🙂
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Cindy! so glad you also has non-natives in your yard, as I do. I get so tired of the 100% natives people who want to make you feel like your destroying the environment by planting a hosta.
I am NOT getting rid of my ‘Autumn Minaret’ daylilies or Rudbeckia laciniata ‘Herbstsonne’ or Asian lilies whose perfume you can smell from 6 ft away and that are taller than me! Bob and I will see you next month in your prairie class!
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Ah, the plant world is such a diverse and lovely place. I don’t think I could give up my zinnias, peonies, and iris; nor my Korean Spice Viburnum. They play nicely with my prairie plants and other natives. Its a big world out there, and as long as I keep my pollinators and birds in mind, I feel like there is leeway! I keep shooting for 70% native; 30% “other” and so far, I’m happy with the results. Take care, and see you soon! Cindy 🙂
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It’s all the rain – my tiny pollinator plot has exploded in growth (weeds, too) in the past few weeks, too! One day I was bemoaning the fact that the common milkweed I planted last year did not seem to make it through the winter. The next time I looked there was a cluster of 8” green stems bursting from the ground, and by now they are 24” tall and I have had to place supports for the stems. So…woohoo! Monarchs – my milkweed is open for business! 🦋 (Ok, so the emojis don’t have a monarch)
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Hi Paula –that’s so exciting about your plot! Yay! Weeds are always with us, aren’t they? 🙂 We need a monarch emoji — and a dragonfly one, too! 🙂 Thanks for reading, and enjoy this beautiful weather. Cindy 🙂
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In my garden, the bunnies love coneflowers as much as I do! They are still in pots and the bunnies apparently think it’s a bowl of salad. The surprise is that I fall for the coneflowers every year and am reminded every year by the nibbled to death stalks that it’s Bunny’s Delight! Sigh! It’s a good thing the bunnies are cute and I am dedicated to finding native plants that aren’t on their favorites list and planting them!
Now trying to figure out if my very small suburban lot could support a grove of Pawpaws. I understand they are “bunny safe”, LOL!
Thanks so much for all you share!
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Oh, those wascally wabbits! They are so cute! But they do have such an appetite. Good luck with the PawPaws! I got mine from Stark Bros Nursery mail order a long time ago, but I think Possibility Place in Illinois has them (may be out of stock now). So much fun! I still wrap the base of mine; the bark must be tempting for some critters. Happy planting! Cindy 🙂
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Happy Spring, Cindy! I truly appreciate your lovely and inspiring posts. I can totally relate to your plant bully woes. My Golden Alexanders are also going berserk this year. Perhaps the online native plant purveyors could include a ‘Plant Thug’ warning on this one!
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Your comment made me laugh!! It’s nice to know I’m not alone with those Golden Alexanders…. whew! I’m considering moving them to a different spot, but well…we’ll see if I actually get that done. Must be a wonderful year for them, weather-wise! 🙂 Enjoy these glory days of May, and keep in touch. Thanks for reading! Cindy 🙂
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Thank you Cindy for the update on your home garden. Our Queen of the Prairie is also coming up strong this year.
Also – We almost always let the “deadwood” remain on our property. This spring we spotted a nesting dove in one of the hollowed out spots high up on a silver maple trunk. Made me so happy!
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It is truly the “Queen” of the prairie, isn’t it– maybe the whole kingdom this season! 🙂 I love it that you leave the deadwood — good for you—that dove is a tribute to your good work. Yay! Thanks for reading, and keep in touch. Cindy 🙂
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“Always learning, ” is so true.
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I think it’s a life-long venture, John — and it does keep things interesting! I’m not sure how anyone could ever be bored. Thanks for reading! Cindy 🙂
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Thanks Cindy for your lovely writing. Fyi, my attempt to register for your talk on June 13 was thwarted by a message saying it is “sold out.” How disappointing since I only got your email today! Please let me know if there are any vacancies in the group. Thanks…
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Hello, Martha — Oh, my goodness — I did not know it was sold out! That was quick. I believe the Arboretum is trying to expand the seating. You can call their education department for updates or to be on a waiting list. If they do expand the tickets, I will be sure and post it on the blog (I called this week to ask if they can add more, but it may be a space limitation). Thank you for being so interested! I’m so grateful for you and others who love the prairie. Cindy 🙂
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Hello, Martha! Because of weather, tonight’s Potawatomi Perspectives is moved indoors and more seating is available — yay! If you are still able to come, here is the link for tickets:
https://mortonarb.org/explore/activities/adult-programs/potawatomi-prairie-perspectives/
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So nice to hear that your pawpaw is blooming and your childhood reminiscence. Very few farmers grow them here in Massachusetts and I feel very lucky that I can usually find a few in the fall. A very unique fruit indeed!
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Oh, that’s great they are in Massachusetts! I wasn’t sure how far the range went. It takes a lot of pawpaw for a little bit of pulp, doesn’t it? 🙂 Thanks for sharing, and for reading. Cindy 🙂
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